Your Magical Midlife

E97 From Watched to Witnessed

Kate Higgins

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From 1970s catcalling being “just how it was,” to the thrill and cost of being seen on burlesque stages and in NYC nightclubs, I spent decades navigating life under the male gaze.

In midlife, something shifts. The watching quietly fades — and with it comes a strange mix of grief, relief, and disorientation.

In this episode, I explore what it means to move from being watched to being truly witnessed: by other women, by ourselves, and in sacred circles. I share how Craft Your Crown has become a powerful witnessing ritual — a place where we’re seen not for how we look, but for who we’re becoming.

If you’ve ever felt invisible, free, or somewhere in between as the gaze changes, this one is for you.

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